You know – what you want? What are you doing for that? When you doing your best everything is supporting on your way. How long is take is depend on your life experience and your expectation. If you are always remember for your “why?” then you can have anything and more than you can imagine.
Sometimes need help, asking is hard = because sometimes answer is not that what you want to hear, and/or you doesn’t know how is can helping you?
Are you taking action reach your dream? When you start taking action, then yourlife can be complicated, because anything is possible. Then nobody know how helping this situation, just keeping your eyes on your dream / target / goal.